For busy men who overthink

In 60 days, stop guessing and start dating.

We’ll pinpoint exactly where your dating life gets stuck, on the apps or in person, and map out how to move forward.

Real Client Results

Meet Brody, who went from a couple of matches per week to 40 in 2 days.

Full profile rebuild: new photos and new prompts that actually sound like him. Watch what changed.

In Person Work

SEPARATE Service

In-person services are available separately by application only.

If you're feeling like dating is harder than it should be, you're not alone.

Maybe it's approaching women in the wild, getting matches, or keeping the conversation going.

This is not a personality flaw. It's an experience gap.

You're competent everywhere else in life. Dating just hasn't gotten the same attention. There are a lot of hidden signals you're sending to your romantic interest that will never be spelled out to you, and an expert outside perspective can make all the difference.

I'm Tillie, a dating strategist for men who overthink

I've dated both men and women, so I know what courting feels like from both sides: what lands, what misses, and why.

As a high-functioning awkward overthinker myself, I had to learn these skills intentionally through research and pattern recognition, not by breezing through life being naturally good at it. That's how I know attraction and charisma are learnable.

And it's exactly why I can teach them.

Don't take my word for it. Take theirs.

Men who took the leap

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Tillie's transformation process

See what she sees

We audit everything: your conversational skills, profile, messages, presence, and overall look. For the first time, you'll have clarity on how you come across and why you've been overlooked.

Know your next move

We turn what the audit found into a plan built around you: your exact sticking points, the specific fixes for each one, and the new habits that replace them, laid out as a step-by-step path.

Practice the approach

We take the approach and apply it to your situation through live roleplay and breakdowns of your real interactions with women. Each session tunes the plan to your progress, so it stops being something you understand and starts being something you can do.

Build momentum that doesn't need me

You leave with a repeatable approach to deeper connections and real chemistry, plus the confidence that comes with having a game plan. You become the guy who dates well on his own.

1:1 Advisory Services

Programs are virtual, confidential and tailored to you

What's Included

Direct Messaging Access

Message access to me when something comes up in real time, outside of regular sessions.

A session-by-session game plan

Built from a deep intake, with your goals and blocks in mind, with clear tasks to do between sessions.

Dating profile audits & curation

Photos, prompts, and messaging rebuilt to pull the right matches.

Style & appearance optimization

How you present, dialed in, so the first impression does you justice.

Mock dates & live practice

Rehearse real situations. Approaching, conversation, the moments you freeze, with honest real-time feedback.

Progress tracking & accountability

A custom progress tracker app and an accountability partner, so you stay motivated and can see real progress.

Free access to The Calm Chemistry Club

My membership-based community, with live calls, my full in-person attraction course (What Women Want), and weekly challenges included free for the length of your 1:1 program.

In Person Work

SEPARATE Service

One day in your city. We decide beforehand what would be the most impactful plan for you.

The Dating Profile Makeover.

Meet Brody, who went from 5-10 matches per month, to 40 matches in 2 days.

My Process

1) Profile audit

We review what is working, what is hurting your results, and why.

2) Dating goals + personality intake

We review what is working, what is hurting your results, and why.

3) Personal positioning

We identify what makes you different and turn that into a profile that actually sounds like you.

4) Shoot planning

We plan locations, outfits, and photo concepts that show different sides of you.

5) Photo Direction

Each photo is chosen with a purpose: trust, warmth, approachability, and attraction.

6) Photo Selection + light editing

Your strongest photos are narrowed down so every image earns its place.

7) Prompt profile rewrites

We replace generic or demanding prompts with prompts that are specific, easy to respond to, and better aligned with your dating goals.

8) Follow up support

After the profile goes live, we check results, make changes if needed, and improve your conversation strategy.

1:1 Advisory Services

Programs are virtual, confidential, and tailored to you

What's Included

Direct Messaging Access

Message access to me when something comes up in real time.

A session-by-session game plan

Built from an in-depth questionnaire, with your goals and blocks in mind, with clear tasks to do between sessions.

Dating profile audits & curation

Photos, prompts, and messaging rebuilt to attract the right women.

Style & appearance optimization

How you present, dialed in, so the first impression does you justice.

Live mock dates

Rehearse real situations. Approaching, conversation, and the moments you freeze, with honest real-time feedback.

Progress tracking & accountability

A custom progress tracker app and an accountability partner, so you stay motivated and can see real progress.

Free access to The Calm Chemistry Club

My membership-based community, with live calls, my full in-person attraction course (What Women Want), and weekly challenges included free for the length of your 1:1 program.

In Person

SEPARATE Service

One day in your city, built entirely around you. We spend it in the real world, on the things that can't happen through a screen, aimed at exactly what's been holding you back.

The transformation starts here

Apply for 1:1 advisory with me

How it works

Fill out an initial screening questionnaire. If you're approved, you'll be redirected to book a strategy session.

During the call, we'll identify what's been holding you back in your dating life, clarify your goals, and then if we're the right fit for each other, select the best program for you.

Not ready for 1:1?

Join The Calm Chemistry Club

Learn how to meet women you're genuinely into and what to do so it goes somewhere. My full in-person attraction course (What Women Want), live group calls with me twice a month, weekly challenges, and my feedback on your real dates, texts and profile. $49/month (that's less than the cost of one mediocre date).

Do the work, and if no woman says yes to a date in 90 days, your next month's on me.

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